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Children
& Money
As
a large proportion of our Advisors are married with children
of our own, we believe that there is a profound financial influence
to be made on children from a very young age. Let’s face
it, even those of you without children have ‘bribed’
nieces and nephews with bars of chocolate or trips to the zoo,
to keep them quiet or to keep their room tidy. So how can Finance
be introduced to our children who are barely out of nappies
without exchanging My First 1000 Words” for the daily
edition of “The Wall Street Journal”?
From
the minute they are born, children are capable of learning.
Parents always try to encourage the positive things in a child’s
life – or what parents consider to be positive –
and discourage the negative. So why do many parents not adopt
the same philosophy when thinking of their children and money.
From
an age where they are too young to understand actual ‘money’
or ‘monetary issues’, children should be rewarded
with things that they like: be it favourite food, favourite
outings or even just quality time spent with them at a time
of day which is not usual for them (such as before school or
immediately after school). This is seen by them as a reward,
much in the same sense that an obedient pet that has just used
the litter-tray, accepts and understands the rewards of chocolate.
As
a child grows though and sees parents spending money –
those shiny coins that children like the look of – they
can be taught that money is something that is ‘worth’
something – this is an important sub-conscious message
that parents should try early to get across. Let us imagine,
would you let your children play with your latest crystal vase
that was worth thousands – of course not, so equally,
when a child tries to pick up coins or notes, treat this the
same as you would for your vase and explain to your child the
‘worth’ of those coins or notes. From such informative
years, the start of a child’s monetary understanding will
grow.
Parents
should always remember, children may be taught about many things
at school, but they most certainly are not taught about the
Value of Money from an early age at school – in many cases
until they are much older and this can then appear in the form
of Business Studies. So if they cannot learn about money at
school, where can they learn about it? Of course at home or
whilst in the company of their parents.
Then
we get to the stage of using money as a financial reward for
our children – initially usually in the form of pocket-money
or an allowance. The earlier you can start giving a child an
allowance that they firstly have to earn and secondly can understand
that they can spend as they wish, will educate them as to the
previously mentioned fact that money is not given for nothing.
Tasks can be set such as washing-up, keeping their room tidy
or a host of other jobs and the children can be rewarded for
successful completion.
Equally,
parents have a responsibility to ensure that they do not give
or withhold money from a child, without explaining carefully
and in detail the reason why they are doing this. This ensures
that the child is aware of why they have not ‘earned’
the money or why they are being ‘rewarded’ with
it – this is called the Value of Money.
Teach
good money habits to your children from a young age by not just
talking or explaining about the Value of Money, actions do speak
louder than words and if you show the true meaning of the Value
of Money by your actions: such as counting change out loud after
a purchase, questioning the price of certain things or even
complaining about wastage of money by such things as leaving
lights on, your child will get an even greater sub-conscious
attitude towards the Value of Money.
It
can never hurt too much to talk regularly to your children about
the Value of Money and as they grow older, the importance of
being wise with your money. A child who loses money at a young
age through a hole in their pocket or whilst climbing a tree
who is not explained the loss and actually feels the loss, will
in later life adopt a different Investor Profile than those
that are given the time to understand the Value of Money.
As
you teach your child other behaviours not necessarily associated
with money, money can be worked into these behaviours as examples
and as the child grows older, they themselves will make comparisons.
As examples, character traits such as generosity, sharing, selfishness
and self-discipline can all be explained using money as examples.
The
single most important factor about our children, their education
and the early introduction of Money as a ‘life-subject’
to be taught, is so that in later life our children have a much
better chance of financial security and success if from a young
age they understand the Value of Money and all that it entails.
Like
most things in life, you are never too young to start learning.
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